Vrinkesh – The Divine Home

When your inner voice is constantly criticizing you, it’s not surprising to feel “not good enough”. 

If you get insecure seeing someone else doing better, there can be a wound which needs to be healed. Your inner unappreciated self needs that feeling of accomplishment which often came from external appreciation. When your “good” feeling is dependent upon outside world, insecurities are so obvious to peep in.

If you wish to become what you want to become, try experimenting to not keep your mind attached to an outcome, rather attach your heart to the process. Do not set a target to get a million kilograms or 450 out of 500. Try setting your heart to a measurable process which you can divide in small steps. Align your mind to follow the steps and keep testing your process for improvements.

When you look at someone and wonder how they did something, stop looking at that person and look within. Write down the steps you are following. Your mind may already know the corrections you need to do and if you feel there is something you are missing out, try to talk to people who discuss their methods. They can be pure hearted precious souls, Avoid people who try to hide the secrets of their success. They are insecure and selfish achievers. Surround the people who are happy to grow with you while sharing their methods of success or even failures, they are enriching souls. Preserve them. Nourish the bond you have with them. Build the trust and carry the relationship forward.

Majority of the people in the world are normal with no extra ordinary abilities. A few of them are a little clearer about their wants and desires to an extent that they can write down on a paper with the exact words what they want. Another few make efforts for it consistently without giving up. If you keep trying some or other day you will receive it, may be not in exact same form but may be somewhat differently.

When the heart gets hooked on something, mind starts finding ways to achieve it on some or other day in this or that form. Either utilize that energy in your fovour or let it destroy your self esteem. The lower your self esteem would fall the more you will start comparing yourself to others and the lesser you will clap for others’ success. Because comparison fills us with envy and self criticism, When you see yourself at that point, determine to heal from within and do everything you can to appreciate your inner self and work on to transform your emotional energy into something productive. Clap for others and build that bond of mutual respect, affection with an aspiration of growth. Because everyone has insecurities and together we can nourish our hearts to solve our issues.

Build the genuine friendships not competitiors. You can do good in life and be a good human being at the same time.